tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35080475098706782562024-02-21T22:00:49.266-05:00One Day At A TimeA Journey into the life of Infertility Treatment and Hopefully Beyond...Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00167562100679148530noreply@blogger.comBlogger44125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3508047509870678256.post-75431024941589050662011-07-25T14:06:00.004-04:002011-08-01T11:18:32.187-04:00Updated BlogI'm moving to a new blog that my family and friends can follow along with also. Please follow this new blog...<br />
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Warning: The blog is a continuation of our journey, but will be documenting the baby now too. It will have some pregnancy related info and photos. If you don't want to follow along, I completely understand and won't be offended. I just wanted to create a site where our family and friends could be updated on the baby's progress too. We don't want to post pics and excessive updates on facebook, so we thought a blog would be the best way.<br />
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<a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com/" target="_blank"><img src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/54489/133/1003250E95F53DB4D198C39504442FD4.png" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% transparent; border: 0pt none ! important;" /></a>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00167562100679148530noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3508047509870678256.post-24180011274503160142011-07-23T09:38:00.000-04:002011-07-23T09:38:34.039-04:00One Healthy HearbeatOne healthy beautiful heartbeat! Sadly the twin was actually a vanishing twin and the other sac was much smaller and could barely be seen. I am so grateful for our one healthy baby, we were able to see and hear the heartbeat. Which was absolutely amazing! I'm 9 weeks today, so I'm still in that nervous stage. I'm worried about the quality of my uterus after the septum resection and just hoping everything is going to be okay. I was released from the RE today. Graduating from their office was bittersweet. I'm going to miss the staff there, but I'm definitely not going to miss infertility treatment. I have my next appointment with my regular OB in 4 weeks, which seems like forever. I'm not going to be able to see my baby for 4 weeks. I'm going to be so nervous for the remainder of the first trimester. I feel so blessed right now, God is good.<br />
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<a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com/" target="_blank"><img src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/54489/133/1003250E95F53DB4D198C39504442FD4.png" style="background: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" /></a>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00167562100679148530noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3508047509870678256.post-61257386935405103962011-07-11T15:40:00.000-04:002011-07-11T15:40:37.497-04:00One Maybe TwoWe had our first ultrasound last week and I'm still a little in shock. We had 2 sacs, but could only see 1 baby and 1 heartbeat in one of the sacs. The empty sac looked a lot smaller than the other one. We are not sure if it's a sac that didn't develop or we just couldn't see anything yet because it's so early. I would have been about 6 weeks and 3 days at that point. So the doctor said there is a 50/50 chance we are having twins! I didn't expect that, but I'm excited. It took a few days for the news to settle in and next week we'll know for sure if it's twins or just one. I was relieved to see at least one heartbeat but am a little concerned about the empty sac. This is going to be a long week waiting for the next ultrasound.<br />
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<a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com/" target="_blank"><img src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/54489/133/1003250E95F53DB4D198C39504442FD4.png" style="background: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" /></a>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00167562100679148530noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3508047509870678256.post-37991248633456591422011-06-21T08:15:00.001-04:002011-06-22T08:40:57.035-04:00Cautiously HappyI called the doctor and they wanted me to find a lab in FL to have my first beta. It was kind of a wild goose chase trying to find a hospital or lab on Saturday where the doctor could fax the order down. We eventually found somewhere to run the test. My first beta came back at 161 mIU/hcg! That was 14 days post ovulation and the nurse said that number is really good. So now it's official I'm pregnant and I'm excited! I'm definitely a little cautious as I know I'm still in the early stages and I know I'm not completely out of the woods yet. I still want to enjoy the excitement right now and just be happy. In 2 weeks, I have my first scan and visit with Dr. A. I can't wait for that. We will continue to pray for the health of our baby as we are so thankful for this little miracle. I also want to thank everyone for their well wishes and prayers. I really appreciate keeping us in your thoughts and prayers right now.<br />
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I have a million thoughts, emotions and feelings running through my mind right now that I'm still trying to process. I don't want to get too excited as I know that this could end up chemical and be a total letdown. I still need to go to the doctor and have a blood test to confirm. Unfortunately, I leave tomorrow for FL and I won't be able to get the test done until I get home. I'm so happy and excited, but yet have so many worries about the pregnancy. I can't wait until I can actually see that little heartbeat. I think I need that confirmation in order to believe that this is really all real and not a fantasy. But for now I'm pregnant...and I'm happy.<br />
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Below is how the link to the article is worded and the link. I'm just glad the Bump has told me that I don't need doctors or drugs. I mean we just all love throwing our money away on something we don't need right? When all we really needed to do was stay calm.<br />
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This past week I had my follicle check or as I like to call it my egg hatching check to see how many eggs I'm going to lay this month. I have to find some humor in the monthly follicle check appointments. So I have 3 mature follicles ready to go. They are surprisingly on my left side this month. Normally my right side takes dominance but this month it's my left. This is probably a good thing because my left side seems to have less scar tissue and less damaged. The IUI went smoothly 2 days later and now we wait. C's counts were better than usual. His counts/motility, etc are normally pretty good, but this month even better than normal. I think it's because he stopped taking some of the supplements the embryologist in our group told him were really bad for him. The sad part is when we picked up the paper and specimen from the lab I can now read the whole semen analysis and I said wow that's great and Dr. A said the same. Dr A said it was the best he'd seen the whole day! :) Some good news. So if it doesn't work it's all my fault, just kidding! Again I'm learning way more about fertility than I ever wanted to know though. I wish we were just one of those couples who could conceive the old fashioned way, I sometimes envy them. Oh well, I always say God could have given us worse things in life. This is what we have in our plan and others' plans our different, but I'm sure not everyone's has the perfect plan either. There are always obstacles in life. But doesn't it feel like when you are TTC everyone else just has it so much easier because they don't have to deal with this same issue. I'm sure that's not the case, but I feel that way sometimes. It just seems so unfair. Everything is in God's hands now and I must tell myself to let it go. It's not in my control. I'm trying to not be as obsessive this month either. I'm not taking every little supplement/vitamin I ever heard would work and I'm not obssessing that I have to be at yoga or have to do this on this day. It's not in my control and I can't change that. This was actually the 3rd IUI (4th month on meds), so maybe the 3rd time is a charm. I just need to find a way to deal with the disappointment this month if it's not our time yet.<br />
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I'm trying to think of the positives right now to stay hopeful for the next cycle. It's not been easy.<br />
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1. AF started early, so the break is officially over. The medicated cycles are started again. I'm done taking the femara for this cycle.<br />
2. I need to just let everything from the past go, all bad cycles all bad feelings, let it all go and think positive, nothing but positive thoughts, everything is going to work out one way or another.<br />
3. The endo is gone for now. It's a clean slate in there.<br />
4. We are going on vacation in a few weeks. So matter what the results are of the first IUI, I'll be on the beach!<br />
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I love so many songs so it's hard to pick just 2.<br />
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1. Lucky by Jason Mraz and Colbie Caillat (this was our wedding song)<br />
2. Just Breathe by Pearl Jam (one of my favorite songs recently and my all time favorite band)Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00167562100679148530noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3508047509870678256.post-57904856825666190452011-05-23T13:33:00.001-04:002011-05-23T13:34:29.810-04:00PreparingI'm already preparing for what I know is going to be a rough week. I'm due for af either tomorrow or Wednesday. Which even though this is only one month post surgery and we didn't do treatment this month, it's still always a downer when she shows up. We are also having my MIL's birthday party at our house this weekend. So they'll be kids galore, even kids staying with us overnight. I know it's going to make me sad. His whole family will be here, people I've never meant and I'm already trying to prepare myself for the "When are you having children?" question over and over again. At least I'll be at home where I can go in my bedroom and have several breakdowns all weekend. <br />
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Please God help me have the strength to hold it together this week and weekend. I know it won't be easy but please help to guide me through this difficult time as I still have faith in your plan and will embrace every new opportunity this journey may bring. As they say, God wouldn't give us anything he didn't think we could handle. So maybe I should be jealous of all the super fertile people. God gives them children easier because he doesn't think they have the strength to make it through such a difficult journey. I'm just trying to make myself feel better. I'm still trying to figure out what the meaning of all this pain is, I know there has to be a reason I'm being put through this super emotional and difficult time. I guess it helps me in holding it all together.<br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">So today is 3 films. There are a lot of movies I like so I'm just going to list 3 that come to mind.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">1. The Blind Side</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">2. 13 Going on 30 </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">3. Eat Pray Love (I would really like to read the book next)</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com/" target="_blank"><img src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/54489/133/1003250E95F53DB4D198C39504442FD4.png" style="background: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" /></a></div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00167562100679148530noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3508047509870678256.post-61422525371278614722011-05-22T11:26:00.000-04:002011-05-23T11:28:38.522-04:004 TV Shows<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHoanSZ-yNogntF-nSiW3_b2HsyLG0SxkMQ3CmgGP4mNzkfSmWBOOqq8b447ZjRAWlZ7W5HumDfLEpp_NpgflvV3OtNBc9GnbKrEB4m5wqG3vh22NEd8Ll1mPIVv1LgIu-HdRlq4yGLFQ/s1600/10dayyou.bmp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" j8="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHoanSZ-yNogntF-nSiW3_b2HsyLG0SxkMQ3CmgGP4mNzkfSmWBOOqq8b447ZjRAWlZ7W5HumDfLEpp_NpgflvV3OtNBc9GnbKrEB4m5wqG3vh22NEd8Ll1mPIVv1LgIu-HdRlq4yGLFQ/s1600/10dayyou.bmp" /></a></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: left;">Sorry I've gotten behind on this. Today is 4 books and I have to admit I'm not much of a reader though I'd like to be. So I'm changing it to 4 TV Shows. I know that is bad, but I'd rather list 4 tv shows than books.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: left;">1. How I Met Your Mother</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: left;">2. American Idol</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: left;">3. Bill and Giuliana</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: left;">4. The Office</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com/" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;" target="_blank"><img src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/54489/133/1003250E95F53DB4D198C39504442FD4.png" style="background: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" /></a></div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00167562100679148530noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3508047509870678256.post-30091131091783784632011-05-17T11:58:00.000-04:002011-05-17T11:58:04.312-04:00Patience is a Virtue<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEioNZkWLrGZ5_2iLT3pL0GMyyBU3j7OOXHY7N1OTalz6kSCehos5Um3Ou46NgHpYyooY2hrC4jONDAfEmaKvTvlZjIUqFdb_XiZurW1TD7wzaDUlH9Z36VnsPDpR3pSE4hFm6RxqpZD0sg/s1600/cute-puppy-pictures-patience-beat.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5509744779154202306" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEioNZkWLrGZ5_2iLT3pL0GMyyBU3j7OOXHY7N1OTalz6kSCehos5Um3Ou46NgHpYyooY2hrC4jONDAfEmaKvTvlZjIUqFdb_XiZurW1TD7wzaDUlH9Z36VnsPDpR3pSE4hFm6RxqpZD0sg/s320/cute-puppy-pictures-patience-beat.jpg" style="height: 288px; width: 320px;" /></a></div><br />
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<span style="color: #274e13;"><strong><u>"ALL GOOD THINGS COME TO HE WHO WAITS"</u></strong></span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">I'm trying to be patient but it's becoming really hard. I'm having one of those days where I feel like everyone is pregnant or has children except me. I love my infertility support group but lately on the board there's been a lot of pregnancy announcements. I'm so thrilled for all of them, they deserve it more than anyone. But deep down I wonder "Am I going to be the lone infertile left". Because I feel that way right now. And I'm back on Facebook in order to be a part of the group, and damn you facebook. It's a constant reminder of everyone is pregnant or has their family and I get to see all their repetitive pictures, Yay Me! They need a special facebook filter for people struggling with infertility. Please block all annoying pregnant women who feel the need to update about every aspect of their pregnancy and give us a day by day update. We know your pregnant you've told us everyday. Also block constant photos of children from the day they were born and everyday after. Some photos of your children are fine, but there needs to be a limit. I don't need to see every minute of the kid's life. I don't care. Facebook can you make this happen so people like me struggling can actually log in to your site without wanting to throw myself off a bridge afterwards. Thanks.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;">So one more week and I will start my period and be moving onto my next cycle. I can already feel a little cramping starting, so I know she's on her way. I just love how she has to let me know a week in advance, isn't that nice of her to give me the notice of her arrival. I was just hoping this cramping would stop with the endo gone but I guess not. It makes me worried that something else is wrong. I'm just trying to find the patience within myself. I know this is going to take time and I need to embrace God's plan. But it's so hard. I want it right now, I feel like I've waited long enough. I can't endure anymore pregnancy announcements or baby showers or kids' birthday parties. Haven't I suffered long enough, I'll be 32 in 2 weeks. I just want my happily ever after. I want to start my family. I have so many plans and I feel like they are on hold. I just need to find the strength to start these cycles with an open mind and hopeful heart. </span><br />
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Five Favorite Foods:<br />
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1. Mexican food particularly tacos and queso<br />
2. Fondue especially chocotate fondue<br />
3. Filet Mignon<br />
4. Grouper<br />
5. Tuna salad<br />
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</div><div style="text-align: left;">6 Places I'd love to visit:</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: left;">1. Greece</div><div style="text-align: left;">2. Paris</div><div style="text-align: left;">3. Bahamas</div>4. Italy<br />
5. Aruba<br />
6. Cabo<br />
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<a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com/" target="_blank"><img src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/54489/133/1003250E95F53DB4D198C39504442FD4.png" style="background: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; border-bottom: 0pt; border-left: 0pt; border-right: 0pt; border-top: 0pt;" /></a>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00167562100679148530noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3508047509870678256.post-42197453067648112272011-05-14T12:00:00.016-04:002011-05-17T12:13:44.894-04:00Needle Me<div style="text-align: center;"><img height="281" id="il_fi" src="http://www.google.com/url?source=imgres&ct=img&q=http://www.weightlossexercisediet.com/images/acupuncture.jpg&sa=X&ei=25vSTaWwLZL4sAONs_CSCQ&ved=0CAQQ8wc&usg=AFQjCNEQrz43Glg9LogbgfvRtL2xdm2sVg" style="padding-bottom: 8px; padding-right: 8px; padding-top: 8px;" width="300" /></div><br />
Who would of thought getting poked with needles could be so relaxing? C & I did acupuncture last night and it was amazing. I think I enjoyed it more than C. I had what he calls the dragon treatment. It is supposed to help with stress and he said a lot of his patients get pregnant just by having the dragons done on them. Let's hope. He needled from head to toe particularly in my abdomen region, probably because that is where I need the most energy flow and release of blockages. I could feel the needles going in but then they didn't hurt at all. He applied heat and then left the room so I could relax and just enjoy. It really is relaxing and afterwards I felt calm and somewhat sleepy. I would definitely recommend acupuncture just for the help with de-stressing and starting new. I think it was the perfect time to have the treatment because we will be starting fresh in less than 2 weeks. I want to have a clear mind and put all previous fertility treatments behind me.<br />
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<a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com/" target="_blank"><img src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/54489/133/1003250E95F53DB4D198C39504442FD4.png" style="background: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" /></a>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00167562100679148530noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3508047509870678256.post-41522032779703094762011-05-14T11:37:00.002-04:002011-05-23T11:25:28.579-04:007 Wants<div style="text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAu70B6KAF7xrisNpQEWFA1eKO7MKd4me7STUER6AbHNlNAMhqNuveWw0JUAo6Le7L2E-BIYeWiOEqg3EjZwo8N2wHYguCMZLp3nDvf_LUb-SuN18_s67lRTmwJ5-vSnUuFoMS9jPYiHk/s1600/10dayyou.bmp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" j8="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAu70B6KAF7xrisNpQEWFA1eKO7MKd4me7STUER6AbHNlNAMhqNuveWw0JUAo6Le7L2E-BIYeWiOEqg3EjZwo8N2wHYguCMZLp3nDvf_LUb-SuN18_s67lRTmwJ5-vSnUuFoMS9jPYiHk/s1600/10dayyou.bmp" /></a></div><br />
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Today is my 7 wants...<br />
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1. Obviously I want a healthy baby and the sooner the better ;)<br />
2. I really want to experience pregnancy but mostly I just want a family<br />
3. I want good health for all my family<br />
4. I want to go on a relaxing vacation and take a break from work<br />
5. I want to just feel happiness and peace. I want to be content with my life.<br />
6. I want to have the best marriage possible. I don't want my marriage to be compromised from infertility, I want it to become stronger.<br />
7. I want to not hold grudges anymore. I want to move on from the past and truly put it behind me. I want to forgive and forget or just forget and start the next chapter of my life.<br />
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My eight fears:<br />
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1. Well obviously #1 would be the fear of never having children/family<br />
2. Heights - I hate them<br />
3. Flying - I really don't like flying it makes me nervous but the end result is always worth it.<br />
4. Spiders/Roaches - Really any kind of bug or rodent - I'm scared of them<br />
5. Fear of something bad happening to a close family member or friends/ I always worry about their safety and fear something happening to them.<br />
6. Fear of not making the right decisions. Right now I have a fear of whether or not I'm being treated by the right doctor or should I switch. I want to make sure I'm doing everything right to improve my chances.<br />
7. Fear of losing my dog. I can't imagine my life without her, especially right now. She keeps me sane during this journey.<br />
8. Fear of failure, not just infertility related but failure in every aspect of my life.<br />
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</div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;">1. My husband</div><div style="text-align: left;">2. My dog</div><div style="text-align: left;">3. Mexican food</div><div style="text-align: left;">4. Yoga</div><div style="text-align: left;">5. Listening to the rain while I sleep</div><div style="text-align: left;">6. Starbucks - skinny vanilla lattes are my favorite</div>7. Clothes and purses - I love to shop<br />
8. Pearl Jam, (Eddie Vedder)<br />
9. The beach and the ocean<br />
10. The Bengals even though they suck right now<br />
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</div><div style="text-align: center;">I saw this challenge on another blog and thought it would be fun to try!</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: center;">So today is Ten Secrets about Me:</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: center;">1. My IF is a secret to most people, I don't share this blog with anyone I personally know and am somewhat embarrassed that I'm having fertility problems. I feel like a failure and less of a person because I haven't been able to have children yet and don't know if I ever can.</div><div style="text-align: center;">2. I started off as a pre-pharmacy major in college and then switched to business. I really regret that decision and wish I could go back and do something different with my life. I would really like to go back to school and change my career.</div><div style="text-align: center;">3. I treat my dog like a person. I sing to her and make up songs about her. I secretly hope I can raise my children as well as I did my dog, because she is pretty awesome!</div><div style="text-align: center;">4. I'm starting to embrace my infertility journey. I think it is helping me to connect with God on a different level. I also am meeting some amazing people through this experience and truly believe God is sending us on this journey for a reason. Someone said to me on a message board today "Thank you for your comment. It reminds me that I'm not alone." That comment really touched my heart because I know how alone I have felt. To me, making someone else feel not alone makes me realize I've achieved a different success and makes me happy.</div><div style="text-align: center;">5. I'm terrified of adopting right now. I really want to be able to control my child's pre-natal care and adoption scares me because I won't have control of what my child is exposed to before in my care.</div><div style="text-align: center;">6. I was in an extremely emotionally and verbally abusive marriage before meeting and marrying my love. Most people do not know how emotionally abused I was. That marriage ending was the best thing in life that ever happened to me and I'm so thankful God found my way out of that. It took some counseling to recover and honestly I could have used more. I'm so thankful for the relationship I'm in now and know how it feels to be truly loved. </div><div style="text-align: center;">7. I don't miss my abusive marriage but I miss some of the friendships I had prior. I lost a lot of friendships with my marriage ending. I had to learn the hard way who my true friends were and most importantly who weren't my true friends. I still have trust issues because of this.</div><div style="text-align: center;">8. I'm back on facebook but it really annoys me at times. I like my support group in facebook that's why I use it. But honestly fb can be a difficult and cruel world at times. <br />
9. I tried to give up caffeine but I can't. I'm addicted to it and need it to get through the day. I especially love coffee.</div><div style="text-align: center;">10. I would love to live in another city. Ohio really bores me and I think it would be so exciting for C & I to move somewhere else. I would love a fresh start and the adventure of us learning about and living in a new town. One that is not so far but maybe at max 5 - 6 hours from home so we can still come visit on weekends.</div><br />
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</div><div align="left" class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I survived another Mother's Day! It wasn't easy, but I'm still alive :) This weekend we went to Nashville just to get away and enjoy ourselves. We stayed at the Opryland Resort and Spa and it was an amazing place. The resort was huge and it was very beautiful. They had gardens and waterfalls throughout the resort and also many restaurants, bars, and shopping. We didn't get to lay by the pool which I would have liked, but we still had a great time. I wish we could have stayed one extra day. One Mother's Day, we both went and got pedicures and manicures at a really nice salon. It was a great way to spend the weekend and relax. I needed to get my mind of Mother's Day and it was perfect. My sister also kept my dog, Lilly. Lilly has been so sad lately and she had an exciting weekend with my nephews. She had a blast and my sister loved having her. She wanted to keep her :) So it all worked out and Lilly got to have a little vacation too! Sometimes I feel bad for her because we don't have any kids or other dogs for her to play with or keep her company. I think she gets lonely during the day and it kind of makes me sad.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">On a fertility note, I used OPK's this month to help predict my natural ovulation a little more accurately. I was excited to actually get a positive, so I know ovulation is on it's way. I'm happy that I'm already ovulating one month after surgery. Hopefully that means my ovaries are in good shape, now my crappy uterus just needs to get on board with the rest of the team! So I'm still a little swollen and my ovulation has been painful this month. Getting pregnant this cycle might not be the best thing for me, since I'm still in the healing process. But it's not going to stop us from trying! But either outcome I'm pretty much okay with :) We have acupuncture scheduled for Friday and I'm really looking forward to that. I'm hoping it relieves my stress and relaxes me just like everyone says it will do.</div><br />
<div style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com/" target="_blank"><img src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/54489/133/1003250E95F53DB4D198C39504442FD4.png" style="background: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" /></a></div>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00167562100679148530noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3508047509870678256.post-19999277193985259332011-05-06T10:34:00.001-04:002011-05-06T10:35:02.193-04:00God's PlanSo as we all know Sunday is the most dreaded day of the year for almost all infertile girls. I loathe this holiday every year, and this year is no different. Should I say it, I hate to even say it, Mother's Day. It's an annual reminder of the fact that I'm infertile and can't be a mom, but it feels like everyone else is. As everyone celebrates with their children, there I sit alone again another year, with just my furbaby. Whom I love, but it's not the same. I love my mom to pieces, but I still hate the holiday. Not because I have a bad mother-daughter relationship. Our relationship is fabulous, but I hate the reminder that I'm 31 and no kids again. So what are we doing, heading out of town and forgetting about the whole holiday. Yes, we are going away for the weekend, just C and I. I'm going to focus on us this weekend and forget about this whole mom's day thing. <br />
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Right now instead of focusing on the negative, I want to focus on the positive experiences going on in our lives.<br />
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<div></div><div></div><ul><li>I had my post-op appointment last week and we are good to go to start treatment on the start of my next cycle. The endo was only stage I, very minimal, and it's gone (at least for now). The septate was half my uterus and then my uterus is still bicornuate. The septum is gone which could have been causing implantation problems and the endo is gone which could have been causing implantation and egg quality problems. The doctor is very optimistic and thinks we can just start out with femara and iui's again. So that leads me to have some optimism too, because with his experience I'm pretty sure he's seen it all. He's not going to sugar coat anything for us. If he has hope, then so do I.</li>
<li>My last cycle started right on time 28 days surprisingly after the surgery. I'll be ready to start treatment at the end of May!</li>
<li>Our support group has helped so much. I enjoy meeting with the girls and couples every week and it's so nice to have support from people who truly understand. I love the fact we are all there to support each other through this difficult journey. We've also been able to receive a ton of information about different aspects of infertility, local doctors, local adoption agencies, etc.</li>
<li>I truly believe that this is all in God's plan for us. As I sit in reflect on infertility, instead of constantly asking "Why me?" anymore, I'm slowly but surely coming to realize that this is just a journey that God is taking us through. In the end, we will have a family, maybe naturally, maybe through adoption, but we will have the end result we want. God gave me these infertility issues for a reason. And thinking through it all, God maybe did this to help me out of the first horribly, abusive relationship I was in prior and to bring me to my true soulmate, C. Without infertility, I may not have ever been able to find my true love. And now maybe it has continued because I found this support group and we are continuing to support each other. Maybe God wanted me to be there to support others and meet these other incredibly strong, amazing people for a reason. God is having us wait for a reason, I'm not exactly sure for what reason yet but I know there is a plan. I'm developing a better relationship with C and myself and with God as I continue through this journey to our family.</li>
<li>This 3 month break was just what the doctor ordered for C and I's relationship. I feel like we have reconnected and our back on the same page with everything. I feel great about going into treatment in a few months and think I can handle it without being too much of an emotional disaster. Let me emphasize the too much, I'm sure I'll be emotional at times throughout our continued journey. But I'm hoping maybe I can deal with things a little better this time around.</li>
</ul><a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com/" target="_blank"><img src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/54489/133/1003250E95F53DB4D198C39504442FD4.png" style="background: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;" /></a>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00167562100679148530noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3508047509870678256.post-3241945214431786982011-04-24T17:19:00.019-04:002011-04-30T19:18:21.407-04:00Random Mix of Emotions<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7oYtId9m-7y2m8AY_Q3jA6pYPSByFljvIfqcSHD7Fxksl5LOhAqV-wm7_mu30IMITRZpoEG9tiYTBGyqFW8QgSlaROheyUGJmYDo9FZdq7n948XWI39cUQgUz3QjVQbPlR6lZFZcwwb8/s1600/emtions1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7oYtId9m-7y2m8AY_Q3jA6pYPSByFljvIfqcSHD7Fxksl5LOhAqV-wm7_mu30IMITRZpoEG9tiYTBGyqFW8QgSlaROheyUGJmYDo9FZdq7n948XWI39cUQgUz3QjVQbPlR6lZFZcwwb8/s1600/emtions1.jpg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: justify;">So this entire week I've been having this random mix of emotions that have been going through my head. I think it's partly my hormones raging and trying to get back on track after the surgery and partly me just being me.</div><ul><li>Frustration - Due to the fact that I'm still waiting for my next period to start and then waiting another cycle to try to conceive again. Then possibly waiting cycle after cycle after cycle for a bfp and then maybe never getting a bfp. I keep thinking when do we start IVF, when do we start looking into adoption. Do we have enough money saved? I'm driving myself nuts. I just want to start these cycles again and I just want things to work!</li>
<li> Anticipation - That maybe this last surgery fixed my issue. Dr. C said in the last support group that endo eliminates a beta 3 protein that is necessary for implantation and when lap surgery removes endo the beta 3 is immediately restored. So will having the beta 3 restored and the septum removed fix our implantation problem. I don't know, but I'm in anticipation to start trying again to find out. Dr. A told me to have patience though, we could need several cycles for this to work again. I need to find this patience!</li>
<li>Guilt - I feel like I've shut down a lot the last few years since I've been dealing with this. To be honest it's just really hard to deal with and talk about. It's not that I'm angry at anyone or I don't care but I deal better alone. To be honest pregnancy announcements anymore make me so depressed. I feel bad because sometimes it's even hard at family functions because I'm the only one without children. It's not that I don't love my nieces and nephews, but it's hard to watch everyone interact with their children and desire so bad to have that interaction. To be honest I feel like I don't fit in anymore at family events, I feel alone and it's hard. I feel left behind and like a failure. "The one that can't bring children into the family." I think some relatives get angry and feel like I cut myself off. They can't understand the way I feel and nor do I expect them to, but sometimes I wish they'd at least try to look at things in my perspective just a little. I know it's not healthy to deal with this all alone and this support group is my first step on getting back out there and dealing with this </li>
<li>Depression - My heart aches with the desire to become a mother. I can't stand the fact of this never happening. And me being the planner that I am plays out every what-if scenario in my head. What-if we go to IVF and that doesn't work, what-if we can't go through with adoption, what if we do adoption and noone chooses us. C has to bring me back down to earth and reassure me that we will have a child one way or another and I need to stop overthinking every situation. I'm so glad he does this because it makes me feel so much better.</li>
</ul>As I'm working through all my thousands of emotions right now, I do know that I still do have a glimpse of hope and sometimes more than a glimpse at times. I also know that I need to let go and it's not up to me. It' up to God. And know matter what I do, I can't change God's plan. No matter what I do it's not going to change that. So right now I need to focus on myself. I need to focus on destressing and just letting life take it's course. I need to start getting back into yoga and meditation. I've scheduled acupuncture with Dr. C. And on Mother's Day weekend we are "conveniently" going out of town for a little weekend to ourselves. It's time to stop trying to control something that has been completely out of my control.<br />
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<a href="http://www.mylivesignature.com/" target="_blank"><img src="http://signatures.mylivesignature.com/54489/133/1003250E95F53DB4D198C39504442FD4.png" style="background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% transparent; border: 0pt none ! important;" /></a>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00167562100679148530noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3508047509870678256.post-33900428453545153362011-04-18T15:35:00.001-04:002011-04-19T22:47:50.352-04:00We Are Not Alone<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzB0JZnZmB-VApZgUtVL1Qnie_bYr1EmDsrYlUAc5N1FH0SZ5m5A0fRmx8exDJCsCBdK-2ZOvEysAhOiNN4YdmOfRXq39DJz1pj4YBJhS8IaQZszkU2J9RlKqXmBEpqCkGc3-Nfuxivb8/s1600/support+group.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzB0JZnZmB-VApZgUtVL1Qnie_bYr1EmDsrYlUAc5N1FH0SZ5m5A0fRmx8exDJCsCBdK-2ZOvEysAhOiNN4YdmOfRXq39DJz1pj4YBJhS8IaQZszkU2J9RlKqXmBEpqCkGc3-Nfuxivb8/s320/support+group.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Last week we went to our first IF support group meeting. I was really nervous about going, but I'm really glad we went. Not only was it great to meet a great group of people but the group will also be providing throughout the session a great amount of IF resources. They will bring in different groups and doctors each week to discuss things such as acupuncture and they will be having a demo, adoption resource group, doctors from IF clinics to openly ask questions about IVF and shared risk programs, etc etc. I'm excited about the amount of information we will be able to obtain. But most importantly talking with the others in the group made me feel so not alone anymore. It was so important to discuss my feelings with people who truly understood. Fertile people just don't get it and I feel like lately a lot of people who do know aren't very compassionate. I don't think they mean to come off this way, but they just don't understand. So having the compassionate feeling and the true understanding even just once a week or once a month will make a difference. I hope we can provide just as much support to others as they will provide to us. <br />
On another note, today I feel almost 100% recovered. Last week I mainly had a lot of shoulder pain from the gas they pump into your abdomen. And my stomach would still hurt if I pushed too hard. But I have recovered nicely and am anxious for my cycles to get back on track so we can get started again. I hope and pray that we will have success sometime in the next 6 months or so with this septum being gone now. But again I don't want to get my hopes up too high. My post-op is next week, I'm anxious to hear what Dr. A has to say.<br />
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